
Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families
Dr Justin Coulson
The Happy families podcast with Dr. Justin Coulson is designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Every day Justin and his wife Kylie provide practical tips and a common sense approach to parenting that Mums and Dads all over the world are connecting with. Justin and Kylie have 6 daughters and they regularly share their experiences of managing a busy household filled with lots of challenges and plenty of happiness. For real and practicable advice from people who understand and appreciate the challenges of a time poor parent, listen to Justin and Kylie and help make your family happier.
Categories: Kids & Family
Listen to the last episode:
The mental load in families isn't just about remembering school events or planning meals - it's an invisible, boundaryless, and enduring form of labour that impacts relationships, careers, and wellbeing. Join Professor Leah Ruppanner from the University of Melbourne as she unpacks groundbreaking research on how mental load affects modern families, why it's not just about task-sharing, and what couples can do to create more balance.
Quote of the Episode: "The mental load is the emotional thinking work that we do to keep our households functioning."
Key Insights:
- Women carry 71% of household mental load tasks.
- Mental load is invisible, boundary-less, and enduring.
- Both partners often duplicate mental load without realising.
- Schools generate nearly 3,000 WhatsApp messages per child annually.
- Men in equitable relationships report better health, sleep, and life satisfaction.
- Single parents (both mums and dads) share similar mental load levels.
- Work structures and social norms make it difficult for men to step into care roles.
- Mental load cannot be eliminated but can be better understood and managed.
Resources Mentioned:
- Fair Play cards system
- Goldie app for managing school communications
- University of Melbourne research
- Misperceived podcast
- Professor Leah Ruppanner (@ProfLeah on Instagram)
Action Steps for Parents:
- Start conversations about mental load without blame or past baggage.
- Consider how technology (like AI assistants) might help manage communications.
- Acknowledge both partners' different but equally valid mental burdens.
- Practice accepting help and taking breaks without guilt.
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Previous episodes
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1818 - #1232 - 71% of Household Mental Load Falls to Mums - Here's Why (R) Wed, 23 Apr 2025
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1817 - #1231 - Why Your Husband's Diet Works (And Yours Doesn't) (R) Tue, 22 Apr 2025
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1816 - #1230 - The 3-Step Solution to Better Emotional Regulation (R) Mon, 21 Apr 2025
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1815 - #1229 - Age-Based Consent Conversations (R) Wed, 16 Apr 2025
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1814 - #1228 - Being an ADHD Mum With Jane McFadden (R) Tue, 15 Apr 2025
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1813 - #1227 - Why the Kids Don't Listen (R) Mon, 14 Apr 2025
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1812 - #1226 - Forcing Kids To Apologise (R) Sun, 13 Apr 2025
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1811 - #1225 - Self Control Can Be A Learned Behaviour With Ethan Kross Fri, 11 Apr 2025
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1810 - #1224 - Awards, Assemblies and Away Days Thu, 10 Apr 2025
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1809 - #1223 - The Data Around School Mobile Phone Bans is Mind-Blowing Wed, 09 Apr 2025
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1808 - #1222 - Taking Control of Self-Control Tue, 08 Apr 2025
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1807 - #1221 - My 3 Year Old is Destroying the House! Mon, 07 Apr 2025
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1806 - #1220 - Careless People Rule the World Sun, 06 Apr 2025
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1805 - #1219 - The Surprising Truth About Sports Success From Australia's Most Decorated Olympian: An Interview With Emma McKeon Fri, 04 Apr 2025
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1804 - #1218 - Room Resets, Dust Bunnies & Waste Witches Thu, 03 Apr 2025
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1803 - #1217 - The Doctor's Desk: What Makes a ‘Favourite' Child? Wed, 02 Apr 2025
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1802 - #1216 - Nutritional Deception: What They're Not Telling You About Kids' Food Tue, 01 Apr 2025
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1801 - #1215 - Help! My 8 Year Old is Totally Self Centred Mon, 31 Mar 2025
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1800 - #1214 - Sharp Knives and High Places: Why Your Child Needs Risky Play Sun, 30 Mar 2025
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1799 - #1213 - Your Daughter Doesn't Need Another Mirror With Dr Renee Engeln Fri, 28 Mar 2025
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1798 - #1212 - Bringing Up Boys With Dr Arne Rubenstein Thu, 27 Mar 2025
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1797 - #1211 - The Crisis of Modern Boyhood: What Adolescence (Netflix) Reveals Wed, 26 Mar 2025
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1796 - #1210 - Breaking Free from Beauty Sickness Tue, 25 Mar 2025
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1795 - #1209 - Bedtime Battles: When Your Kids Won't Stay in Their Own Beds Mon, 24 Mar 2025
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1794 - #1208 - Let Them: The Two Words That Will Set You Free from Other People's Drama Sun, 23 Mar 2025
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1793 - #1207 - Listen Like You Mean It: How to Hear What Your Child Isn't Saying Fri, 21 Mar 2025
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1792 - #1206 - Rethinking School: Why Alternative Education Might Be the Best Choice for Your Child Thu, 20 Mar 2025
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1791 - #1205 - Your Child Will See Pornography: Here's What You Need to Know Wed, 19 Mar 2025
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1790 - #1204 - Taking the Ride, Not the Wheel: The Secret to Better Listening Tue, 18 Mar 2025
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1789 - #1203 - Heartbroken: When Your Kid Says They’re Embarrassed by You Mon, 17 Mar 2025
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1788 - #1202 - Boys Will Be Boys? The Disturbing Reality of Sexual Threats in Schools Sun, 16 Mar 2025
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1787 - #1201 - Free Range Parenting 101 With Lenore Skenazy Fri, 14 Mar 2025
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1786 - #1200 - Sweet-Talking Your Teen: The Art of Delivering Disappointing News Thu, 13 Mar 2025
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1785 - #1199 - Why I Banned Reading Logs in My Home (And You Should Too) Wed, 12 Mar 2025
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1784 - #1198- The 'Worst Mother' Who Got It Right Tue, 11 Mar 2025
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1783 - #1197 - When Your Child Has No School Friends Mon, 10 Mar 2025
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1782 - #1196 - Hack Your Child's Brain Chemistry (The Good Way!) Sun, 09 Mar 2025
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1781 - #1195 - Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About ASD, ADHD and Executive Function With Andrew Guastella Fri, 07 Mar 2025
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1780 - #1194 - Maths Anxiety, Camp Bullies, and the Power of Connection Thu, 06 Mar 2025
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1779 - #1193 - The School Photo Crisis: When AI Turns Toxic Wed, 05 Mar 2025
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1778 - #1192 - Creating Better Spaces for Neurodivergent Children Tue, 04 Mar 2025
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1777 - #1191 - Should You Pay for A's? The Pocket Money Debate Mon, 03 Mar 2025
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1776 - #1190 - The Ultimate Parenting Book List (From Someone Who's Read Them All) Sun, 02 Mar 2025
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1775 - #1189 - Sleep Myths Busted: A Doctor's View Fri, 28 Feb 2025
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1774 - #1188 - The Book That Changed Our Fussy Eater Thu, 27 Feb 2025
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1773 - #1187 - 238 Studies Can't Be Wrong: The Key to Better Parenting Wed, 26 Feb 2025
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1772 - #1186 - The Sleep Stats That Will Wake You Up Tue, 25 Feb 2025
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1771 - #1185 - Girls and Makeup: The Mecca Meltdown Mon, 24 Feb 2025
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1770 - #1184 - 95% of Parents Don’t Have This One Thing - But We All NEED It Sun, 23 Feb 2025
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1769 - #1183 - 71% of Household Mental Load Falls to Mums - Here's Why Fri, 21 Feb 2025